To the parent of a son

Okay.

I will stay at home at night.

I won’t drink.

I won’t party at clubs.

I won't wear short clothes.

I won’t talk and laugh openly in public.

I know it’s for my good. I will take care of me.

But what will you do for my good?

When will you tell your sons?

She’s not asking for it;

She’s not all breasts and vagina;

She’s not supposed to look thin or fair.

She’s not supposed to be whistled at,

Winked at or blown kisses at.

That

He is supposed to see her as an equal,

A living entity-a whole made of many parts.

That

"No" means exactly that!

Women don't have a separate language.

That

Perverts who objectify women

Are the ones “asking for”-

A slap on their face.

The day you teach him that-

Then- I will truly be safe.



Recently, I heard a crazy remark on the "Teach your sons not to rape" quote: What parents teach their sons to rape? 

Parents do no teach them to rape;NEITHER DO THEY TEACH THEM NOT TO RAPE. We need to impregnate our sons with the need to respect women, that eve teasing and rape is lowly. We need to spell that out. We need to teach the meaning of no and of a less known concept of "consesual sex". We need to make teaching this a cultural norm!